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How does one succeed in life?

11.06.2025 03:19

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I stop drinking?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What I need from you?

Why do you think it is bad to allow people to self-identify as a different gender?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why do Trumpers and MAGA Republicans care who is trans and who is gay ECT? If they didn't have a personal interest in transgenderism it shouldn't matter so much then, right?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What is it like to have an insanely beautiful girlfriend?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Making more friends is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

That's it for today.

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Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Are there any political parties or groups that have a mix of conservative and liberal beliefs? Why are they not as prominent in the media?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.